The Importance of Authenticity and Integrity

All the time, people say one thing and do another. It’s become normal to be flaky, unreliable, and not a person of your word — except it’s not normal. Saying one thing and doing another is a poor reflection of one’s character, and the people who do this are risking losing valuable relationships.

Make a Firm Inner Decision

I certainly have flaws and shortcomings, but one thing I have going for me is that people say I’m authentic. Being authentic allows me to make real connections with other people. I genuinely care about them and seek to help them, as opposed to the hidden agenda so many people carry. You can (and will) absolutely get paid for helping others, but you must make it your first priority to have a sincere interest in the welfare of yourself and the people around you.

This does not mean you will let people use you, nor does it mean you will be afraid to sell yourself on your true value. Being authentic helps to know when to draw boundaries and stand up for yourself. You refuse to be fake. Do you want to be truly authentic?

Then make a firm inner decision to do so, right now.

What makes you authentic? Think about it and reflect on it, both in your mind and on paper. Knowing these core qualities about yourself will serve you well.